Family Promise Do’s & Don’ts

Posted by UFM Admin

January 26, 2020

Volunteers, please review this document before every rotation!

  • Do have two volunteers present at the Host site at all times.
  • Do have two volunteers present in any room while providing childcare for parenting classes.
  • Do be flexible.
  • School activities, work and transportation schedules do not always fit the expectations of hosts perfectly. There are lots of moving parts in Family Promise, so flexibility is key.
  • Do introduce yourself.
  • Do greet and address guests by name.
  • Do allow guests to open themselves up to you.
  • Do listen.
  • Do respect their boundaries.
  • Do pay attention to all guests, not just the amiable ones.
  • Do respect the parent’s authority.
  • Do go through your volunteer coordinator when you want to give a gift. Do communicate with your volunteer coordinator.
  • Do remember that someone is always listening.
  • Do treat everyone the same as you would treat a friend or a coworker, regardless of their current circumstances.
  • Do pray for the guests.Do offer grace and encouragement to the guests.
  • Do play with the kids.
  • Do involve the guests – cleaning up dinner, conversations, playing with kids, etc.
  • Do not pry: Do not ask about where they’re from.
  • Do not ask how they came to be homeless
  • Do not ask about family
  • Do not ask about jobs, past or present
  • Do not contradict the parents.
  • Do not touch guests for any reason without parents’ clear permission.
  • Do not give our private phone numbers.
  • Do not give guests a ride in your personal vehicle.
  • Do not give gifts or cash directly to a family or an individual.
  • Do not push your beliefs/faith on the guests.
  • For After-hours urgencies: 316-977-7026 xt.6
  • In an emergency, call 911.

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